UK Members of Parliament have rejected an Australia-style ban on social media for under-16s, and have instead backed flexible ministerial powers.

A ban on sites like Tiktok, Instagram, and Snapchat was brought in for children in Australia at the end of last year – the first country to impose a ban and similar plans were backed by peers in the House of Lords in January.

Supporters include actor Hugh Grant, but critics such as children’s charity the National Society for the Prevention of Cruelty to Children (NSPCC) warned of young people being driven to dark corners of the internet as a result.

The Conservatives said there was an emergency and ministers should legislate to protect children.

Responding to the result, the Liberal Democrats said failure to commit to a ban was simply not good enough.

Opponents also include the father of Molly Russell, who took her own life at 14 after viewing harmful content online, who said the government should focus on robust enforcement of existing laws.

Plans for a ban were put forward as suggested changes to the Children’s Wellbeing and Schools Bill.

But in the Commons on Monday, education minister Olivia Bailey urged MPs to dismiss the change and support more flexible restrictions.

“Many parents and campaign groups have called for an outright ban on social media for under-16s,” she said.

“Others, including children’s charities, have warned that a blanket ban could drive children towards less regulated corners of the internet or leave teenagers unprepared when they do come online.

“That is why last week, the government launched a consultation to seek views to help shape our next steps and ensure children can grow up with a safer, healthier and more enriching relationship with the online world.”

The consultation will look at whether social media platforms should come with a minimum age requirement and whether platforms should switch off addictive features such as auto play.

Bailey’s alternative plan will give Science Secretary Liz Kendall powers to “restrict or ban children of certain ages from accessing social media services and chat bots”.

Kendall will also have the option to limit access to specific features that are harmful or addictive on social media, as well as the ability to restrict or limit children’s Virtual Private Network (VPN) use and change the age of digital consent in the UK.

The consultation will look at whether social media platforms should come with a minimum age requirement and whether platforms should switch off addictive features such as autoplay.

Bailey’s alternative plan will give Science Secretary Liz Kendall powers to “restrict or ban children of certain ages from accessing social media services and chat bots”.

Kendall will also have the option to limit access to “specific features that are harmful or addictive” on social media, as well as the ability to “restrict or limit children’s Virtual Private Network (VPN) use and change the age of digital consent in the UK”.

Conservative shadow education secretary Laura Trott pressed the government to put an age limit on social media access and introduce a ban on phones in schools.

She said polling shows “40% of children are shown explicit content during the school day”, adding: “That’s happening right now. This is an emergency. No more guidance, no more consultations. Legislate, do something about it.”

MPs voted 307 to 173 against the Lords proposal for an outright ban, and supported Bailey’s bid, which left the door to a ban of some sort open.